This Catagory on my blog, “The Do It Yourself Homebirth Debate” is a collection of news stories, with much commentary from me on the subject of Husband/Wife Homebirth. Some of our medical and midwife opponents have used some very derogatory language to diss the Freebirth Movement in a variety of chat rooms, online news sites, and blogs. Recently I watched the new Movie, The Great Debaters and a play on a quote from the movie comes to mind when thinking of the critics of the Unassisted Childbirth movement.
“My opponent is a mere dissenting voice of the truth I speak, and to me, he does not exist!”
The actual quote from the movie: “Who is the judge? The judge is God… Why is He God? Because He decides who wins or loses, not my opponent … Who is your opponent? He does not exist…. Why doesn’t he exist? Because he is a mere dissenting voice of the truth I speak.”
What follows in this catagory are many blog entries documenting the current on line debate swirling around the Unassisted Childbirth movement on the internet. My prayer is that with Rikki Lakes New Documentary, The Business of Being Born, and increased televison coverage around UC Birth, the debate will jump from the internet to the public airwaves and our society will take the time to have a healthy discussion about what is best for mothers and the babes they are birthing.
Jenny Hatch

Jenny Hatch three weeks after giving birth to my fourth child Andrew in september of 1996. He was eleven pounds at birth and came into the world after I took on the challenge to do my own prenatal care and give birth alone at home.

This past month we reached a milestone in the US Unassisted Childbirth Movement. The very first mainstream television media coverage on the show To The Contrary played on PBS stations across the country.
Even though the broadcast left very much to be desired in terms of debate about birth and health care politics, I was very grateful the producers of that show took us on. Here is my blog post on the actual show, with several letters included that I wrote to Bonnie Erbe shortly after the broadcast.
I first heard about unassisted homebirth when I read Pearl Bucks book The Good Earth when I was a teen. I had the first desire to give birth alone enter my heart while I was in labor with my oldest daughter in 1988.
In 1989 I decided that one day I would join the League of LIBERATED women by giving birth alone.
In 1992 my first attempt at freebirth ended in a c-section at the hospital. I had not told my family what I was planning and hoped to just give birth quickly at home. I had sent my mother the book Emergency Childbirth by Greg White, and asked her to join me in this adventure and she bluntly told me that she was not qualified to help with a home birth. Paul knew I was very interested in giving birth at home, but he was so consumed with fear we could hardly discuss it. Paul was very, very angry at me when he heard about my dream to give birth alone at home when I told him about my plans after the birth. I labored at home for twenty hours, fear overtook my heart and we went to the hospital.
In 1994 my second attempt at freebirth ended after a three day putsy, putsy labor at home, followed by nine more hours of labor in the hospital, an overwhelming three hours of transition, and additional four hours of pushing. That birth was a triumph though because I was able to give birth without any drugs, no episiotomy, and it was a successful VBAC. We had gone back and forth about a homebirth during this birth, but at the time lay midwives were outlawed in Colorado and we felt really nervous to take on a VBAC at home. I stayed home as long as I felt comfortable and was grateful not to have another surgery. Homebirth felt so far out of my grasp at this point, I sometimes felt like giving up my dream to birth alone. After Jeffs birth in 1994 I read Laura Shanleys book Unassisted Childbirth and it refueled my desire for an Unassisted Birth.
In 1996 I gave birth to my fourth child happily at home, after doing my own prenatal care. During this pregnancy I told everyone I was going to have an unassisted home birth, especially my husband and parents. I did not want any confusion on the matter, and felt it was important to stand firm in the truth of my intentions no matter what sort of distress it brought into my life. The distress was overwhelming at times. Andy was a huge 11 pound 12 ounce boy, and just after the birth, my happiness turned to horror as we could not get him to breathe and I bled out 90% of my blood volume.
We both almost died and for many years Paul and I felt that we had been burned by childbirth too many times and did not have the faith to proceed with our goals for a large mormon family. I had two miscarriages during those six years between Andy and Bens pregnancies. I had not lost my faith in Unassisted Husband/Wife Homebirth, during those years I wrote two books on Freebirth, Organized the Second Conference, and happily cheered seven couples on here in Boulder who gave birth perfectly at home alone. Paul and I continued to teach Bradley childbirth classes for a couple more years after Andys birth but I was so busy with four young children we soon made the decision to stop teaching in our home and I moved all of my birth work onto the web to maximize outreach. I also participated in an online forum for mormon women and continued to watch and cheer for my friends as each child entered the world. Paul and I did not know if unassisted homebirth was something that worked in our marriage and for our family, but we were very happy for those couples who had such great success.
During those six years I got into Liver and Gall Bladder Cleansing. I am now convinced that Liver Cleansing is the key to a healthy pregnancy, a great birth with no extra bleeding, and a breastfeeding experience not befuddled by breast infections. To get my breastmilk to flow like thick cream, with easy assimilation of food for both me and my baby, I cleansed and cleansed my liver!
I want to testify that if someone like me who was plagued with mental illness, allergies, asthma, skin problems, and so many seeming birth disasters and problems can overcome those issues and go on to happily and safely birth a child alone after doing my own prenatal care….if I can do it….ANYONE can do it.
The whole point of my web site and blog is to help you along in your quest to overcome your health issues and create a healthy family. Genetics are NOT the only factor in how healthy your children will be. If genetics were the only thing that counted for our family, our children would be a bunch of mentally ill asthmatics with skin problems and chronic fatigue dogging them at every juncture. I am NOT claiming that our children are perfect or that we never get sick. But I can see that our children are so much healthier than any gene pool would ever allow given the various health issues that both Paul and I have struggled with.
Bens birth was such a triumph for us as a couple after so many years of hoping, reading, praying, and trying to make a go of family life. We had felt betrayed by our ideals almost from the first year of our marriage. Me being checked into a mental hospital for post partum psychosis just a few days after our first anniversary (and my 21st birthday) was not exactly our vision of how we had planned to spend our married life with children together.
I love my husband with all of my heart. Here is a video of me singing Eternity is You from the musical My Turn on Earth. This is one of our love songs.

I know that in the pages of my books, this blog, and my various writings on the web I may sound like an egotistical, naval gazing, narcicist. Because of the way free speech works in our country, a person like me can only share my TESTIMONY of how I have healed my body and mind. Were I to make any sort of generalizing claims about healing or regeneration of body, mind, and spirit for other women, I could be open to all sorts of censorship from the FDA and the various regulating medical groups in our society. And so, in my writings I have liberally shared my testimony of how I have healed and renewed my body, mind, and soul, as well as a few testimonials from other families who have done similar things. I believe it is pathetic that Americans have to leave the country in order to have free speech around healing issues. But the powers that be have all of us in a chokehold of control, with a complete lack of debate, and full scale propagandizing of young women in all things chemical when it comes to Mothering.
In this post I would like to share my own Unassisted Birth story of our fifth child. I am so happy for those couples who are able to give birth alone at home with a first baby. You have saved yourselves a boatload of trouble by just getting into this lifestyle at the beginning of your married life. Bens birth was a complete and total triumph over all that we had suffered while welcoming children into our marriage.
I hope that this story inspires you to also grasp your freedom, your sovereignty as a family, and your power as a woman to live the life that you feel will bless your children and your marriage.
I give birth alone because I believe it is best for the baby!
And if we have any more children, I will do my own prenatal care and give birth alone.
Here is my story, I laced it with various unassisted childbirth videos created to help share the good news of Husband Wife Homebirth!
Jenny Hatch
My Unassisted Birth Story
This story is archived at Compleat Mother Magazine and Unassisted Childbirth.com
The full story of Benjamins pregnancy and Birth is found at my web site, The Natural Family Company, and is an E book titled, A Lotus Birth.
I had many contractions during my pregnancy but five days before Ben was born things changed and I had some contractions that came every five minutes that were really hard and opened my cervix enough that I started to pass some mucous plug with lots of bloody show. I was excited and felt happy that after so many years of hoping for another baby, my empty arms would soon be filled.
That afternoon my contractions picked up and I thought I was in true labor. Physically they took all of my energy. Emotionally I found that I had a battle on my hands. The battle can be summed up as a type of spiritual warfare. It was not just my battle. My husband Paul also experienced five days of his own fight. For him, the fears swirled around his issues with the powers that be. We had an unassisted birth six years before that resulted in a transfer to the hospital.
The most critical post birth complications are Baby not breathing and Mom bleeding. With this birth we had both problems crop up, and decided to call 911 for assistance. I am grateful for the help we had after our birth, and for the learning that resulted from not having things go well. Had everything gone perfectly, we would have missed a great opportunity these past six years, the opportunity to learn more. I did much research on bleeding issues and Paul took an infant CPR class. These efforts comforted us and helped us to feel more prepared this time around.
Even with these preparations and our deep religious faith, the five days before Benjamin’s birth was a time of trial. Our faith in natural childbirth and unassisted birth in particular was put to the test.
After the birth Paul said he thought those five days were for him, to battle it out in his mind. To determine the type of life we were going to live, and whether or not we would cave to the pressure – mostly internal pressure (but based upon a fearful reality) to conform to society and live a mainstream life. Or if we were going to overcome our fears of being labeled and/or prosecuted as “medical neglecters” by doctors and social workers and live the life we have felt guided to with home birth, home school and what I term “Family Sovereignty” as the ideal for our family.
Happily our battle resulted in a perfect outcome on all levels; emotionally, spiritually, and even though I had a difficult time physically – I was much more concerned about the long term affects of this birth on my psyche, my marriage, and my relationships than I was on the short term physical pain.
I hope my insights will be helpful to those of you who are preparing for an unassisted birth. We must understand that Laura Shanley is right, and it is our beliefs as mothers that largely affect our birth outcomes. Our husbands and families beliefs also deeply affect us, as well as anyone else we decide to invite into our home to assist us with the labor.
Because I can’t control how others feel about birth and only have control over my own mind, I was drawn to unassisted birth as a means of SAFELY welcoming my children without having to deal with other people’s fears. I felt this negativity during my three hospital births, especially from the medical people around me. I studied Quantum Mechanics in college and didn’t understand why these so called scientists hadn’t embraced these same truths in their physics classes. But perhaps their obstetrical educations had deprived them of the truth surrounding belief.

If I learned nothing else during my first solo birth, I learned that birth for me was easy, unhindered, and smooth when I was alone. (I called Paul up to help me during Andy’s birth in 1996 only after I had pushed out his head).
On Sunday night, October 20th 2002, my contractions completely stopped and we enjoyed a quiet spiritual evening with our older children. We talked to them about birth and told them stories from their own labors that illustrated the true nature of natural childbirth with its many stops and starts. We sang and prayed together and all went to bed excited, but willing to wait.
The next day, I again had a long period of pre-labor that lasted for hours. I passed more mucous plug and felt the contractions really getting strong. It had been a full moon that night and I enjoyed watching the moon go down out of my west facing bedroom window as I contracted in the birth pool during the early morning hours of Monday. I heard the children start to wake up and felt things slow down and then I fell asleep in the water. When I woke up everything had stopped.
That day I went about my normal routine but Paul decided to work from home. He ended up working from home all week. This was one of the happiest weeks we have ever had. We decided to let the children take the week off from schoolwork and spent hours playing at the park, walking, and cooking/eating together. On Monday night I walked to my exercise class and as soon as I sat down on my mat, my water broke. It was all over my pants and the mat, and I decided to go home. Once home, I again felt excitement/nervousness that my baby would mostly likely come soon. None of my previous labors had started with the water breaking and so this was new for us.
I was surprised how much fluid spilled out of me over the next 72 hours. It was a lightly tinged green color and smelled alive, like a fresh rain on autumn leaves. I noticed that each time I ate, drank, or walked the fluid came out in a gush. I used cloth diapers to catch it and was really surprised that my body could leak so much without going into labor. I mourned the loss of my water birth. With the membranes ruptured and water leaking all over the place I knew it would not be wise to get into the pool. I really focused on staying well hydrated, nourished, upbeat, and rested. I also asked my doula to come give me a few massages and bring me wheat grass juice. I used the juice to help keep my blood clean, hematocrit up, and to nourish the baby.
My daughters gave me a raindrop therapy each of those three days. (If you want to order the raindrop therapy kit go to http://www.youngliving.us and use my member number 29526 to get this fabulous aromatherapy kit!) This is an essential oil treatment that is an overall boost to the body. I did it to help prevent infection and to give me energy. We made the decision not to tell anyone that my water had broken. We told the kids, but asked them not to share the news, and they didn’t.
I had a few contractions but nothing regular for the three days my water was broken and that was a blessing as the uterine activity of Sunday had really tired me out. I took lots of naps and spent most of my emotional energy working on my thoughts, keeping them pure. It was very powerful for me to run the lyrics to some of my favorite songs through my mind. I will share the words from one of these songs. The music helped me to stay focused on my child and not get lost in fear, the greatest of which was the fear of a prolapsed cord.
Paper Dream – Reprise 2 (From the musical Saturday’s Warrior)
I take some paper in my hand, and with a pencil draw a man,
The dream of what I’d really, really like to be.
A man with courage in his brow, whose licked his doubts and fears somehow,
A Warrior of great nobility.
But who am I? Just a wandering kid, a cipher on the wall,
Not even brave at all.
And where’s my dream like his that I would fight for?
And where’s my cause like his that I would die for?
But still the paper’s in my hand and every day I sketch the man,
The dream of what I’d really like to be.
A man with courage in his brow, whose licked his doubts and fears somehow.
A Warrior of great nobility.
A brave and noble fiery youth, who’s not afraid to die for truth
Whose tall and straight but best of all he’s free,
He’s free.

I ran the words to this song through my mind a hundred times over those three days, and each time they gave me strength and courage. I also sang hymns, quoted myself scripture and belief suggestions and realized that during this time it was crucial that I stay mindful of my thoughts every waking moment. Each time the fear would come into my heart; fear of infection, fear that I would never go into labor, fear of prolapsed cord, and fear of someone learning that my water had broken and might try to convince me or force me to be induced, I would just switch the negative thoughts to positive and run the words through my mind, usually the words to the above quoted song. A few times I went down to my piano and played the music of this song, and each time I started to cry as I thought of my warrior son who was soon to be born. It was a comfort to me to cook and clean and stay focused on my housework as a way to distract myself from the reality of the situation. (Two full weeks overdue and water broken) The day before I went into labor I found myself cleaning under my stove and scrubbing it all over. I thought about deep cleaning my oven, but I decided to save that task for another day.
The day I went into labor was just a normal day. I went for a walk, had a massage, tended my nephew and cooked and cleaned. We took a few pictures and my visiting teachers stopped by. About 5PM I came downstairs to make a milk shake with calcium/magnesium and minerals and then I decided to check my emails. I was writing to my friend Veronika Robinson when contractions really picked up. As I typed out my email to her, I told her I thought I might be going into real labor, and once finished I headed upstairs to my bed. I laid down in a semi reclining position with lots of pillows supporting my back, my arms and legs. I contracted for two hours with little noise, but as things picked up in intensity, I started to vocalize loudly. As the contraction would start I would start a low moan that gradually became a loud AHHHHHHHHH! This very effectively moved all of the energy in my uterus up out of my body through my mouth and made it so I was able to handle the first five hours of this six hour labor very effectively on my own.
Paul and the children were in and out of the room a few times asking me if I thought this was really it, I was in my own space and was rather vague about my progression. Paul did bring me a couple of hot, wet cloth diapers to place on my bottom and I used my oils; Gentle baby, Valor, Panaway, and Myrrh to help my body stretch and prepare.
At one point I was all alone as Paul had fallen asleep in the children’s room on the floor while reading them stories, and one by one they also fell asleep. I used the toilet a few times to keep my bladder empty but always returned to my position on my back on the bed. At one point I sang the song When you Believe from the Prince of Egypt out loud. I had chosen this song to be the theme song of the Unassisted Childbirth movement back in 1998. The words are perfect, powerful and were a great strength to me as I approached transition. I was battling a fear that one of the reasons I bled so bad with my last birth was because I had squatted during pushing, and so I was determined to push the baby out on my bed in the semi reclining position. I continued to gush amniotic fluid during the labor and focused on staying well hydrated with a water bottle by my side.
During transition, which only lasted a few minutes, the contractions were one on top of the other and I was VERY loud with my vocalizing. Paul woke up during this time and came in and asked me how things were going. He wanted to know if he could do anything to help and I asked him to sing me hymns. So he sat down on my rocking chair and pulled out the hymnbook and started singing. He sang for the first hour of my pushing. I cannot emphasize enough how powerful an activity this was. It had the combined effect of inviting the spirit of the Lord into our home and calming my spirit. Paul sang When faith endures, which was the hymn that I had chosen to be the theme of our 2001 Unassisted Childbirth conference….
I will not doubt, I will not fear. God’s love and strength are always near.
His promised gift helps me to find, and inner strength and peace of mind.
I give the father willingly, my trust, my prayers, humility.
His spirit guides, his love assures that fear departs when faith endures.

I was starting to get tired after an hour of pushing on the bed and I prayed and asked God which position would be best for me to effectively push the baby out. I felt that I should stand and squat during my contractions. In prayer I expressed my fear of bleeding and I felt a calm assurance that I would not bleed too much. So I stood up. As the next contraction came on I squatted down deeply by my bed and pushed! I felt the baby inch slowly down with each push. In between contractions I sat on my birthing ball and rested. As his head moved down, I felt an increasing pain in my back, hips and pelvis. I have had three painless vaginal births and so this was new for me. I have determined that the difference was pushing with the water bag intact compared to not having much water gushing along with that fifteen inch head. It was like birthing a brick. As his head worked it’s way down I felt so much pain I wondered if I could do it. Never did I even consider going to the hospital or using drugs, but I did have a few moments of self doubt, wondering how big the baby was, and what if it was breech or posterior? I continued to have the fear of a prolapsed cord and as this fear worked in me, I just felt determined to get my child born.
I pushed with everything I had using the Bradley technique of breath in, breath out, breath in, breath out and then deep breath in…put chin on chest, hold breath and PUSH!! It was very effective combined with the full squat. During the last few contractions I felt this heat overtake my body and sweat was just pouring off me. I asked Paul to turn on the ceiling fan and then he poured water all over my head and back. I told him to put some panaway on my back and he tossed about 30 drops of it all over my back and hips. Then he rubbed my lower back during the contractions in a very effective counter pressure. It didn’t take the pain away but it did make it possible for me to do it. On the third to last contraction I felt Ben’s head all of a sudden move in a big way through the birth canal and I reached down and felt his head crowning. I was concerned about tearing, and thought about asking for a hot compress, but decided I wanted Paul behind me ready to catch rather than in the bathroom getting me a cloth. Paul pulled out the bulb syringe and prepared himself.
With the second to last contraction I pushed out his head, and then with the final out came his body. These contractions were closer together and he was born quickly from the time he crowned. Paul sucked out his nose and mouth before he was completely born and then caught him. As he passed Ben to me through my legs I turned to look at him and saw him leaping for joy. I have heard of many men fainting in the delivery room, or having a fear of fainting while their wives give birth, but I have never heard of a father jumping for JOY when the baby is safely born. Paul did and it is my favorite memory of the birth.
I passed the placenta within fifteen minutes with a large plop, and then bled a little. We used prayer and blessings during this time to help with my pain and various post birth symptoms. The children started to wake up, and one by one they came into our bedroom. We took many pictures and had a joyful three hours bonding with our 9 and ½ pound boy. Then the children all went back to bed and Paul and I fell asleep on our bed with Benjamin nestled on his chest.
After our wedding day, this day was the happiest, most fulfilling day of our life!
~Jenny Marie Hatch

Jenny and Laura Shanley in 2007