Hawthor The Cow Goddess – Article attacking Co-Sleeping

Hawthor has a great post on the politics of the Family Bed.
Go Here to read it.
We used a crib for our first daughter, until she was two and then the fighting began over the family bed. (Fights between my husband and I about how to handle nightime parenting) By the time I had our third we just pushed two large queen size beds together in one bedroom and tried to get as much sleep as we could. As our children have grown and matured, they have moved into their own rooms and beds and at five, Ben, our youngest, usually starts out in our bed and then we move him into the boys room when he falls asleep.
I remember thinking that I would never get these children out of our room at night, but each child has gradually matured to where they feel comfortable alone at night. We got rid of the crib 15 years ago and I only use a cradle for our newborns, right next to my bed. I think the biggest thing that has changed for Paul and I over the years is the understanding of how quickly the time passes with our babes and toddlers. When our oldest children were little, it felt like they would never mature, but now that life is speeding up, we find ourselves grasping for those sacred moments of connection with our youngest son; nursing, rocking, singing, and soothing to sleep. We both understand that sooner than later it will all be over and he won’t need us as much, as he follows in his siblings footsteps and grows up.
I love the book Nightime Parenting by Dr. Sears. It really made sense to me when I read it.
Hawthor also has a funny comic attached to this story. Go Here to see it.
Jenny Hatch

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Ricki Lake takes on baby birthing industry

Actress and former talk show host shares:
Actress and former talk show host shares her at-home delivery in new film
By Mike Celizic
TODAYShow.com contributor
updated 9:59 a.m. MT, Thurs., Jan. 10, 2008
When Ricki Lake was giving birth six years ago to her second son, Owen, she wasn’t thinking about ever sharing the video taken of the joyous event with the public. If she had considered that possibility, she said with a laugh Thursday on TODAY, things would have been different.
“I would have had better lighting, I would have removed the shampoo bottles, and I would have worn a top,” she quipped.
The “birth experience,” as she calls it, ended up in her new documentary, “The Business of Being Born,” which debuted on Wednesday to positive reviews.
The film follows the actress and former talk show host as she decides to have the delivery at home attended by a midwife and also documents other births, both at home and in hospital birthing centers.
It’s already stirring controversy as well as criticism from the medical community, which feels maligned by Lake’s advocacy of giving birth at home, a course chosen by just 1 percent of American women.
“This movie is not about hospitals versus home,” Lake told TODAY’s Ann Curry in New York. “I’m raising some really major questions about the medical system and whether it’s really servicing mothers and babies as well as it could.”
The United States, she said, has one of the highest infant mortality rates in the developed world.
According to “The CIA World Factbook,” Singapore led the world with an infant mortality rate of 2.30 per 1,000 live births, followed by Sweden with a rate of 2.76 and Japan at 2.80. The United States’ rate of 6.37 ranked just 37th, behind South Korea and Cuba and just ahead of Croatia. The highest mortality rate was in Angola, where the rate is 184.44 deaths for every 1,000 births.
“The fact that we have the second-worst infant mortality rate in the developed world is a statistic that I think people need to know about,” she said. “We are the richest country in the world and the technology that we have is amazing today. Women in their 40s and even in their 50s can get pregnant today and carry children and deliver, babies are living at 23 weeks gestation. It’s amazing the strides we’ve made. But in that process, we’ve lost normal birth.”
Lake was still hosting her long-running talk show when she became pregnant and started to research home birth. Her first child, Milo, was born in 1997 with the aid of a midwife in a birth center. Her second, she decided, would be born at home.
“I felt through my second birth — all the research and finding out what I found out — having my baby at home was incredibly empowering,” she said, adding quickly, “Not that the other one wasn’t.”
She also fought off suggestions that she believes that all women should give birth at home.
“I’m not saying women aren’t empowered when they have their epidural, when they have their C-section, and I don’t judge any woman for any choice they make when it comes to their body,” she told Curry. “I just feel like I had information that I felt my friends and people around me didn’t have access to.”
Home births rare in U.S.
Home births and midwives are more common in Japan and Europe than in the United States, where just 8 percent of all births are attended by midwives, most of those in hospital birthing centers.
“Midwives are an amazing profession,” she said. “I think they make amazing sacrifices for women, for their patients.”
Curry noted that critics in the medical community feel that giving birth at home exposes women to unnecessary risks. Indeed, one of the women in “The Business of Being Born,” the film’s director, Abby Epstein, had to be rushed to a hospital while attempting to give birth at home because of a breech delivery.
“I don’t see it as unnecessary risks,” Lake said. “I had a low-risk pregnancy. My midwife was incredibly trained. I think it’s about the consumer, the mom-to-be, the family, to make the best choice for them. I’m not telling them to do what I did. It’s not about that. It’s about doing your homework and caring about the process of birth.”
The film has many scenes of births both at home and in hospitals, including a C-section. The scenes of women giving birth at home are particularly striking. “It’s really important for women today to see how amazing these women are during their birth experience, when they’re completely able to move around and labor on their own. It’s mind-blowing,” Lake said. “The reaction we’re getting is mostly extremely positive.”
The Business of Being Born Web Site
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Unassisted Childbirth Testimonial 1 – The Ojala Family

This is a new catagory on my blog. I am taking testimonials from families who have moved from hospital birth to unassisted childbirth. Here is the first from Jamine Ojala:

This video is available on My Share Page at One True Media.

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NYT: AYAAN HIRSI ALI Book Review of The Suicide of Reason

In this recent Book Review Titled Blind Faith Ms. Ali not only reviews this new book, but also shares many interesting insights into the difference between the western mind, especially the American Mind, and the mind of those raised in Tribal cultures.
Here is the first paragraph of the review:

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Susans Homespun Life

Blogger Susana Baig has discovered a brilliant way of converting thrift store clothing into gorgeous quilts for her family and friends!
Check out her Homespun Life Blog here.


Susans other Blog Spirit led Birth: Go Here.
Jenny Hatch